Is this a medical problem? Or something else?

At the BCC, we offer medically necessary mental health services, and relational and family services. This doesn’t mean we value one more over the other. Relational services are preventative, growth-fostering, and healing. They just don’t require a medical diagnosis. This post is to help you figure out which pathway fits your needs best. And of course, we’re happy to talk this through over the phone, just reach out.

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An image of two hexagon cards, one a collage with a hand against a window, and one reading: Condemned Isolation is the repeated experience of not being heard or seen that leaves one feeling shut out of community and possibility. It can cause deep shame and further disconnection. Condemned isolation differs from solitude where one can be alone and still feel connectedl.

Condemned Isolation

Why disconnection hurts, and connection heals At the Bloomington Center for Connection, one of the deepest sources of suffering we see is isolation. Isolation without a sense of possibility, called...

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Therapy for IU Students

If you're a parent seeking help for your IU student, you're in the right place. Start the intake Is Your IU Student Struggling? A Guide for Out of Town Family Support If you’re reading this because...

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When healing requires humanity

When healing requires humanity

Why AI can't offer mutuality (and why mutuality is essential to therapy) The beauty of therapy isn’t in perfection—it’s in mutuality. AI can simulate care, but it can’t be your therapist, because...

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A picture of many melted candles of different colors with a clay sculpture in the middle of 4 humans holding hands in the air, representing a relational group session

Showing up for connection

The first group therapy I participated in was the result of a bargain with my therapist. I was in individual therapy for a while, circling the same themes, feeling stuck in patterns I couldn’t quite...

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A picture of a foggy sunrise. The CARE assessment group can increase energy and clarity through your relationships

CARE-ing for your mental health

As the world becomes increasingly complex—social upheaval, political strife, and personal stress—it’s tempting to withdraw and attempt to manage alone. However, Relational-Cultural Theory (RCT)...

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Getting in the MUD

Growth-fostering relationships require a willingness to step into the unknown together. RCT provides tools and support to help couples lean into this messiness, understanding that vulnerability is a pathway to deeper connection.

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Relational Parenting TGNC Kids

Avoiding a "Model Me" Disconnect In Relational-Cultural Theory (RCT), Maureen Walker's concepts of “Model Me” and “Not Me” describe the internalized narratives we carry about who we believe we...

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