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Therapy Without Diagnosis

When we think about therapy, we often associate it with mental health diagnoses like anxiety or depression. But what if you’re struggling in ways that don’t fit into a diagnostic box? Job stress,…

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Love Needs Fighters

How To Keep Going On Monday evenings I’m lucky enough to get and talk with one of my best friends about whatever comes up. We record it, and sometimes it turns out to be something worth…

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Rethinking Self-Care

Relational care isn’t just about individual relationships—it’s about creating a cultural shift. In a society that often prizes independence above all else, relational care values interdependence…

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Supporting Transgender Youth

Navigating shame and cultural barriers with Relational-Cultural Theory (RCT) In a society where rigid gender norms and misinformation about trans identities persist, families often face cultural…

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Disruptive Empathy

What a week. A platform that endangers transgender youth and adults, decimates reproductive freedom, and glorifies violence has been elevated to leadership in all branches of our federal government….

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A picture of two playing cards from our RCT Toybox, one with the words Mutuality is the shared experience of affecting one another. It is a joining based on all participants being open to the relationship. Mutuality requires emotional availability and willingness to change. It differs from reciprocity, which is a transactional expectation. The other card has a silhouette of a child and an adult reaching for each other

The Practice Of Mutuality

Relational-Cultural Theory’s take on mutuality is what we need right now. The overwhelm of politics makes it easy to disconnect—not only from others but from the broader currents of culture…

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The Central Relational Paradox

Relational-Cultural Therapy combats the central relational paradox by creating relationships where individuals can bring their full selves into connection, fostering healing through mutual empathy and…

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One True Thing

One True Thing offers a way to navigate challenging conversations and disagreements without sacrificing integrity, shutting down, or lashing out.

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Gender Expansive RCT

Relational-Cultural Theory embraces trans and gender-expansive identities and implores others to commit to an expansive understanding of gender.

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Mindful Flow in RCT

Therapeutic Flow in RCT: a mindful approach to healing Relational-Cultural Theory (RCT) views therapy as a complex flow that emphasizes presence over manualized interventions. Therapy involves…

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Essentially RCT

These essentialist beliefs not only oversimplify gender but create a social ladder where some are seen as ‘more correct’ or ‘normal’ than others, impacting how we connect with each other. RCT thrives …

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