Healing and Growth Through Connection
At the Bloomington Center for Connection, relational therapy offers a growth-oriented, creative path toward deeper connection with yourself, others, and the world around you. Grounded in Relational-Cultural Theory (RCT), this approach invites reflection, curiosity, and play as ways to build growth-fostering relationships that promote personal and collective healing.
What is relational therapy?
Relational therapy is a private-pay, non-medical service designed to nurture authentic relationships and personal growth. It is not considered medically necessary and is therefore not billable to insurance. Rather than diagnosing or treating mental illness, relational therapy helps people explore how connection and disconnection shape their lives currently and historically, and how restoring connection supports healing.
Why Choose Relational Therapy
Insurance-based therapy often focuses on reducing symptoms and meeting medical requirements. Relational therapy provides space for something different:
- Freedom from labels and diagnostic criteria
- Fewer worries about the impact of diagnosis on future life or health insurance plans
- Curiosity and play as tools for exploration
- Authentic connection that encourages discovery and healing
- Relational growth that naturally extends into the communities that surround us
When we heal our relationships, we help heal the surrounding systems. Growth-fostering relationships ripple outward, creating a world with more empathy, equity, and care.
How does play figure into this?
As we grow up, surviving in our culture can mean putting on a “grown-up face”—trying to be proper, productive, or composed—and in the process, we can lose touch with our playfulness and authenticity. Reconnecting with play helps us touch in with our core ways of making meaning. Through play, we renew our vitality, creativity, and authenticity—the same qualities that make relationships thrive. In relational therapy, play becomes a way to explore connection itself—a living practice of curiosity, creativity, and wonder. Play invites us to meet each other in the present moment and rediscover what makes us feel most alive.

Who might benefit?
Relational therapy may be right for you if you’re:
- Wanting to strengthen your relationships or communication
- Worried about “losing yourself” in relationships but not resonating with the language around boundaries that dominates the mental health field
- Seeking growth and authenticity outside the medical model
- Navigating life transitions, identity shifts, or creative blocks
- Looking for connection, community, and a renewed sense of possibility
Cost and Accessibility
Because relational therapy is offered outside the insurance system, it allows for flexible pacing and greater privacy. Sliding-scale and opt-out discounts are available for those who are underinsured or uninsured, ensuring that connection-based healing remains accessible.